But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands. Hoping to meet someone special for a hot, sexual relationship or even just a quick fling?The fact is: If a guy is profoundly obnoxious or terrible after a breakup, it is most often a testament to how rough the breakup was on him. MORE: 5 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Guys Jerry Seinfeld once said that breaking up a relationship needs to be like taking off a Band-aid – One motion: OFF!In the same regard, when a relationship ends, it is much much harder for a guy to go back and discuss and revisit and talk through and explain, etc. In fact, guys like to keep their emotional spectrum focused on a tight range of emotions – somewhere between amusement and contentedness.While we all had different experiences, there was one thing we all agreed on: There are a few questions we are absolutely of hearing from guys on a first date. Asking me what I “do for fun” kind of makes me feel like I’m on an interview, not a date.Some of you may be thinking that this question means the guy is trying to plan a future date for us. There is no faster way to make me feel like I’m failing at life than to ask me why I’m single.Almost all nice guys truly believe the world is unfair and all girls are liars because all girls say they like nice guys but end up walking all over these nice guys all the time. [Read: The real truth behind why girls never like you] Well, if you think you’re a nice guy who deserves the best girl in the world, here are a few things you need to ask yourself. [Read: The right way to text a girl and make her want you] Why are the other guys better than nice guys?Contrary to a nice guy’s belief, the world isn’t split into just two kinds of men, the nice guys and the bad boys.
(aka, "Why are you single: The Remix)This is one of those backhanded compliments that really has no response. As a Plus-Size Princess, I often wonder if the guys asking me out have dated big girls before (not that it matters, but I do wonder), and I’ve learned that the answer is rarely helpful.There are great guys, sweet guys, charming guys, flirty guys, principled guys and hundreds of other kinds of guys who are admired and liked by girls.So a girl just doesn’t have to choose between a bad boy and a nice guy.So any interaction that a guy knows will bring him out of that sweet range of emotions is an interaction he’s going to do everything he can to avoid.Personally, I have had breakups where I pretty much went cold. I wanted her to be OK, I wanted good things for her in life, but I knew that nothing was going to make the situation better.If you want to know how to choose between two guys with as little heartache as possible, just follow these steps.